I know what it’s like to be alone. I have a history of isolating myself. I lived alone for many years. And to the people who are hurting out there for that reason of suffering while alone, I am sorry. I am the kind who wants to reach out and help. I feel your pain… Continue reading Being alone
Tag: Relationships
How to spot Gaslighting
I have been really struggling to understand gaslighting. To describe it as little as possible, I think it is about convincing someone else that they are the problem. My favorite explanation for the concept is as follows: Kali Rogers, founder of Blush Online Coaching, told Elite Daily that gaslighting, or the act of your partner… Continue reading How to spot Gaslighting
Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”
"And by the depth of this hole, I’d say she’s as feisty as ever!" - Shippo This episode addresses the thought - will my ex forget about me? No, never. I think it is an ideal reminder. Who can't relate with the pain in this episode if you have experienced a breakup... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFFsp9jbPi8 Another thing… Continue reading Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”
When you can’t move on – Inuyasha Ep 22
Kikyo - Save me? A wretch such as you presumes to save my soul? You would’ve been better to leave me be and not end your life. Monk- Priestess, to whom may what your purpose is? Time continues for the living. They carve their futures with each passing moment. However, for the dead, such as… Continue reading When you can’t move on – Inuyasha Ep 22
Self-Talk, Respect, and Relationships
Self-love is all about recognizing how you treat yourself, and that includes how you talk to yourself. Do you tell yourself you're stupid? In a relationship, any boundaries that are set with someone else define whether or not respect is happening. In these cases with actual people dealing with each other, it might be obvious… Continue reading Self-Talk, Respect, and Relationships
Everlasting Love
The last time I thought about everlasting love involved being very sad, but today I decided to write down some motivating words that I heard in a video. I think they really summarize what I am thinking when I try so hard and refuse to let go of my Love. “Hopefully you continue to fight… Continue reading Everlasting Love
Girlfriend material – accepting hardships
"She is not a girlfriend material if she leaves as soon as you start crying or expressing a problem. In a relationship, of course we want it to be perfect and always joyful. But being emotional should also be accpeted. A girl who can’t handle you at your first [worst] clearly don’t deserve your best.… Continue reading Girlfriend material – accepting hardships
Inuyasha Ep. 20-21 – taking care of my own attractiveness
This next chapter in the marriage course is a tough one for me. I think it is perhaps my greatest weakness. I have to work on becoming more attractive. I have blogged about this one repeatedly. I keep getting told to do it by literally everyone: take care of myself. “Lie down! Sleep! Rest! How… Continue reading Inuyasha Ep. 20-21 – taking care of my own attractiveness
The same runaround every time
Every time I talk to anyone - therapist or otherwise - they advise that I find a hobby, work on something else. This polite way to say it could more bluntly be put as “Get the hell over it and find a distraction!” Then I talk about how much I value stability and long for… Continue reading The same runaround every time
And I will lose myself for you
“I'll never let it hold me down I'll never let you walk through hell I would lose myself for you And don't you know that all I need Is a little bit of company and I would lose myself for you (Lose myself for you)” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AEJY-2Ku0Q True love is about sacrifices. That is maturity. I… Continue reading And I will lose myself for you
Sango and Miroku 