The same runaround every time

Every time I talk to anyone - therapist or otherwise - they advise that I find a hobby, work on something else. This polite way to say it could more bluntly be put as “Get the hell over it and find a distraction!” Then I talk about how much I value stability and long for… Continue reading The same runaround every time

I could show you how

I have seen numerous relationship coaches strongly warn against responding poorly emotionally to a breakup. And so I have been really struggling to truly understand the problem with this statement and why it is so toxic during a breakup: “So you are begging and pleading to the person who dumped you? Well, that’s weak and… Continue reading I could show you how