Kikyo - Save me? A wretch such as you presumes to save my soul? You would’ve been better to leave me be and not end your life. Monk- Priestess, to whom may what your purpose is? Time continues for the living. They carve their futures with each passing moment. However, for the dead, such as… Continue reading When you can’t move on – Inuyasha Ep 22
Tag: breakup
Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
Something that I keep worrying about is how I keep being given tiny clues as to what went wrong to cause the separation and they keep piling up as slightly new different ones each time. Obviously I know what the major ones were, but I suspect there were some other ways I was making things… Continue reading Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
I could show you how
I have seen numerous relationship coaches strongly warn against responding poorly emotionally to a breakup. And so I have been really struggling to truly understand the problem with this statement and why it is so toxic during a breakup: “So you are begging and pleading to the person who dumped you? Well, that’s weak and… Continue reading I could show you how
Trust, how to reconcile, and meditation exercise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xpIrfzZ_6A I think this video does a really good job of showing the concept of pulling away and how feelings of anger can arise. I really recommend it, because it shows how difficult it can be for people to see beyond hurt sometimes. Understanding the perspective of others can make the world of a difference!… Continue reading Trust, how to reconcile, and meditation exercise
Doing my homework! Part 5 (Introduction): Basic Texting How-To
The next assignment involves having to practice ice breaker texts. These are the kind of texts where one has to learn how to start re-start contact. There is a lot of material out there on this subject, but it is important to know how to text like a normal person to start. I found myself… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 5 (Introduction): Basic Texting How-To
Deaf ears in the breakup
Asking why? They don't know either. You can't get the truth. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zqAEi9PbEAA&app=desktop And silence? WHY WHY WHY? Why is love not enough? "Happiness is the answer." There is also trust. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8_8-SeZrqHM&app=desktop
How is your ex feeling? More homework!
Self-reflection can involve trying to figure out how the other person feels. Here are some more detailed questions: Anger: Why? What is that anger masking? What desires bubble below it? I think my Love tried to make it work for a long time, but I was always unhappy. Yeah, I know what that means- I… Continue reading How is your ex feeling? More homework!
Doing my homework! Part 4
The next assignment is all about recognizing the good times with the person you love in order to use it to bring up good conversations. I don’t know why this is so hard right now, but I think it is because I am facing a lot of self-doubt. I find myself trying to do so,… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 4
Doing my homework! Part 3
There is no actual homework, per se, but rather instead a “game” where in an attempt to build self-esteem one has to figure out and list what their good traits are. Be sure to be honest and add things like what others think, personality, physical traits, accomplishments, and abilities. Unlike real life, where you don’t… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 3
Doing my Homework! Part 2
Also known as Worksheet 3 according to the book, I am working on the next assignment from my Relationship book. This assignment covers seeing the big picture. This one does take a bit more thought. I wish I had done this before I even considered being with my Love. Anyway, again, I share this for… Continue reading Doing my Homework! Part 2
Sango and Miroku 