I have been really struggling to understand gaslighting. To describe it as little as possible, I think it is about convincing someone else that they are the problem. My favorite explanation for the concept is as follows: Kali Rogers, founder of Blush Online Coaching, told Elite Daily that gaslighting, or the act of your partner… Continue reading How to spot Gaslighting
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How to talk to children results in how to talk to adults
This week’s webinar with betterhelp.com covered the topic of how to talk to children. It was a fascinating topic to me, because I really have no idea how to do that. And I continue to be surprised how it is repeatedly emphasized that good habits begin early – kids need to be talked to in… Continue reading How to talk to children results in how to talk to adults
Everlasting Love
The last time I thought about everlasting love involved being very sad, but today I decided to write down some motivating words that I heard in a video. I think they really summarize what I am thinking when I try so hard and refuse to let go of my Love. “Hopefully you continue to fight… Continue reading Everlasting Love
Inuyasha Ep. 20-21 – taking care of my own attractiveness
This next chapter in the marriage course is a tough one for me. I think it is perhaps my greatest weakness. I have to work on becoming more attractive. I have blogged about this one repeatedly. I keep getting told to do it by literally everyone: take care of myself. “Lie down! Sleep! Rest! How… Continue reading Inuyasha Ep. 20-21 – taking care of my own attractiveness
The same runaround every time
Every time I talk to anyone - therapist or otherwise - they advise that I find a hobby, work on something else. This polite way to say it could more bluntly be put as “Get the hell over it and find a distraction!” Then I talk about how much I value stability and long for… Continue reading The same runaround every time
And I will lose myself for you
“I'll never let it hold me down I'll never let you walk through hell I would lose myself for you And don't you know that all I need Is a little bit of company and I would lose myself for you (Lose myself for you)” https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1AEJY-2Ku0Q True love is about sacrifices. That is maturity. I… Continue reading And I will lose myself for you
Trust, how to reconcile, and meditation exercise
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5xpIrfzZ_6A I think this video does a really good job of showing the concept of pulling away and how feelings of anger can arise. I really recommend it, because it shows how difficult it can be for people to see beyond hurt sometimes. Understanding the perspective of others can make the world of a difference!… Continue reading Trust, how to reconcile, and meditation exercise
Sango and Miroku 