I have been really struggling to understand gaslighting. To describe it as little as possible, I think it is about convincing someone else that they are the problem. My favorite explanation for the concept is as follows: Kali Rogers, founder of Blush Online Coaching, told Elite Daily that gaslighting, or the act of your partner… Continue reading How to spot Gaslighting
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Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
Something that I keep worrying about is how I keep being given tiny clues as to what went wrong to cause the separation and they keep piling up as slightly new different ones each time. Obviously I know what the major ones were, but I suspect there were some other ways I was making things… Continue reading Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
I could show you how
I have seen numerous relationship coaches strongly warn against responding poorly emotionally to a breakup. And so I have been really struggling to truly understand the problem with this statement and why it is so toxic during a breakup: “So you are begging and pleading to the person who dumped you? Well, that’s weak and… Continue reading I could show you how
Sango and Miroku 