Texting ideas and being expressive… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MLoFQLGPgik An invaluable lesson: analyze your texts to find out your value from that person… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hmbUgVJ8LHE How to communicate confidence, set up dates, and so on, via text to build attraction. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rz7nJezVsf0 I would not say I agree with all of these points, but overall, there are some good points.… Continue reading Self worth and texting: “you have your reasons, I have my reality”
How to spot Gaslighting
I have been really struggling to understand gaslighting. To describe it as little as possible, I think it is about convincing someone else that they are the problem. My favorite explanation for the concept is as follows: Kali Rogers, founder of Blush Online Coaching, told Elite Daily that gaslighting, or the act of your partner… Continue reading How to spot Gaslighting
How to ask someone out on a date in a meaningful way
I have seen enough on YouTube to realize that I like this advice: as a female (or who cares what the gender is!), just go out and ask the other person if you want another date. Yes, if you like someone, ask. Or make it clear you are open to another date by stating so… Continue reading How to ask someone out on a date in a meaningful way
Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”
"And by the depth of this hole, I’d say she’s as feisty as ever!" - Shippo This episode addresses the thought - will my ex forget about me? No, never. I think it is an ideal reminder. Who can't relate with the pain in this episode if you have experienced a breakup... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFFsp9jbPi8 Another thing… Continue reading Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”
When you can’t move on – Inuyasha Ep 22
Kikyo - Save me? A wretch such as you presumes to save my soul? You would’ve been better to leave me be and not end your life. Monk- Priestess, to whom may what your purpose is? Time continues for the living. They carve their futures with each passing moment. However, for the dead, such as… Continue reading When you can’t move on – Inuyasha Ep 22
Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
Something that I keep worrying about is how I keep being given tiny clues as to what went wrong to cause the separation and they keep piling up as slightly new different ones each time. Obviously I know what the major ones were, but I suspect there were some other ways I was making things… Continue reading Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers
What’s wrong with suicide?
I know this will be a controversial subject, but seriously, what is wrong with suicide? This time I am not going to try finding any answers here either. If somebody feels like they have absolutely no desire to live any more, who are we to tell them they can’t? Yes, I understand if somebody wants… Continue reading What’s wrong with suicide?
How to talk to children results in how to talk to adults
This week’s webinar with betterhelp.com covered the topic of how to talk to children. It was a fascinating topic to me, because I really have no idea how to do that. And I continue to be surprised how it is repeatedly emphasized that good habits begin early – kids need to be talked to in… Continue reading How to talk to children results in how to talk to adults
The lie, and a lonely existence
I moved into a new airbnb. This endless horrible existence is the worst. Yet when I tell my Love I am moving, I pretend everything is great, and so on... The reaction? Concern for me. Ok, I feel his care to again be told with concern that I again have more male roommates, but sadly, I… Continue reading The lie, and a lonely existence
Self-Talk, Respect, and Relationships
Self-love is all about recognizing how you treat yourself, and that includes how you talk to yourself. Do you tell yourself you're stupid? In a relationship, any boundaries that are set with someone else define whether or not respect is happening. In these cases with actual people dealing with each other, it might be obvious… Continue reading Self-Talk, Respect, and Relationships
Sango and Miroku 