Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”

"And by the depth of this hole, I’d say she’s as feisty as ever!" - Shippo This episode addresses the thought - will my ex forget about me? No, never. I think it is an ideal reminder. Who can't relate with the pain in this episode if you have experienced a breakup... https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yFFsp9jbPi8 Another thing… Continue reading Inuyasha 23 – “he hasn’t forgotten you”

Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers

Something that I keep worrying about is how I keep being given tiny clues as to what went wrong to cause the separation and they keep piling up as slightly new different ones each time. Obviously I know what the major ones were, but I suspect there were some other ways I was making things… Continue reading Reverse reasoning for finding breakup answers

Where are you in your personal recovery?

Seeing I am in the very cautious time period of reestablishing peaceful talk, I have to think long and hard about these questions a lot of the time. I pulled these series of questions from Mark Seiter’s website. Are you truly ready to talk to your ex again? How much time has gone by since… Continue reading Where are you in your personal recovery?

Doing my homework! Part 4

The next assignment is all about recognizing the good times with the person you love in order to use it to bring up good conversations. I don’t know why this is so hard right now, but I think it is because I am facing a lot of self-doubt. I find myself trying to do so,… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 4

Doing my homework! Part 3

There is no actual homework, per se, but rather instead a “game” where in an attempt to build self-esteem one has to figure out and list what their good traits are. Be sure to be honest and add things like what others think, personality, physical traits, accomplishments, and abilities. Unlike real life, where you don’t… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 3

Doing my Homework! Part 2

Also known as Worksheet 3 according to the book, I am working on the next assignment from my Relationship book. This assignment covers seeing the big picture. This one does take a bit more thought. I wish I had done this before I even considered being with my Love. Anyway, again, I share this for… Continue reading Doing my Homework! Part 2

Doing my homework! Part 1

Ok, so I bought a book that will help me with figuring out relationship stuff. They spoon-feed me the lessons daily. I think this a good thing. It forces me to slow down and reflect. Anyway, I am submitting the answers to my homework here. Maybe this might help somebody else going through a breakup… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 1