To be placed on a pedestal is not recommended for a relationship, but for me, I just wanted the love more than anything. I still remember how my Love regrettably told me he wished that even our getting married had not been put off for so long. I feel like I have been put last… Continue reading It hurts so much
Tag: separation
SHE used to drink water!
I saw this a few days ago and it made me laugh. I feel like this a lot: Within this past hour, I also saw a picture of somebody who expressed himself so much like my Love, that I stopped dead in my tracks with utmost curiosity, along with intrigue. I downloaded the picture,… Continue reading SHE used to drink water!
Where are you in your personal recovery?
Seeing I am in the very cautious time period of reestablishing peaceful talk, I have to think long and hard about these questions a lot of the time. I pulled these series of questions from Mark Seiter’s website. Are you truly ready to talk to your ex again? How much time has gone by since… Continue reading Where are you in your personal recovery?
Putting in the effort for someone
I can see everything, and everything you'll see, is lies! After learning about how respect works and how you have to try so hard to repair a broken relationship, I have not wanted to lose my Love at all, but it was today that I woke up in tears. He has not had to experience… Continue reading Putting in the effort for someone
I survived the first date!
The first date…happened. I want to thank Mat Boggs for his encouraging audio to help me survive. This pep talk which he gives is definitely the attitude to have with someone when as you are looking in the mirror and about to step out the door: http://www.crackingthemancode.com/love-abundance-mindset-training-reg I also focused on making a comfortable neutral… Continue reading I survived the first date!
Using Open-Ended Questions
Another thing I learned about was the concept of open-ended questions. This is like the key to getting an answer to “how do you feel”? Corny as it sounds to use this as a source of information, I liked the Wikihow definition of explaining this: An open-ended question is a question that requires a full… Continue reading Using Open-Ended Questions
Doing my homework! Part 5 (Introduction): Basic Texting How-To
The next assignment involves having to practice ice breaker texts. These are the kind of texts where one has to learn how to start re-start contact. There is a lot of material out there on this subject, but it is important to know how to text like a normal person to start. I found myself… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 5 (Introduction): Basic Texting How-To
How is your ex feeling? More homework!
Self-reflection can involve trying to figure out how the other person feels. Here are some more detailed questions: Anger: Why? What is that anger masking? What desires bubble below it? I think my Love tried to make it work for a long time, but I was always unhappy. Yeah, I know what that means- I… Continue reading How is your ex feeling? More homework!
Doing my homework! Part 4
The next assignment is all about recognizing the good times with the person you love in order to use it to bring up good conversations. I don’t know why this is so hard right now, but I think it is because I am facing a lot of self-doubt. I find myself trying to do so,… Continue reading Doing my homework! Part 4
My stolen dreams do cry out!
Another day is dawning, but still I find it by bed... Engaging in 2 activities: There is the tip to go on two dates before being the first to approach my Love ever again in any situation. No, not serious romantic dates, but the kind of outings with someone else that actually get you thinking… Continue reading My stolen dreams do cry out!
Sango and Miroku 